Question
I am a mother of three great kids ages 13, 10 and 7.
During the 2010 - 2011 school year, my 13 and 10 year old were enrolled in public school, but my 7 year old was homeschooled. Although they have all been homeschooled in the past, we decided a few years ago to try public school. Like everything in life, it has advantages and disadvantages. My oldest daughter loves public school and does very well academically. She will be in the 8th grade this fall and will be taking some advanced courses.
My son, who is 10, loves learning. This year he was in the 4th grade and because he is so advanced he was doing all 6th grade school work. Our problem with him is that although he is very academically advanced, he is not socially. He grasps things very quickly and gets his work done very quickly and then becomes bored. When this happens he starts annoying others and being disruptive. He was a young 4th grader - he just turned 10 in late May and he is a boy after all.
Our local elementary school only has about 45 kids from PreK thru 6; therefore, they teach three grades in one classroom. Unfortunately, he moved to a new classroom this year and the teacher he got was to me not a good fit for my son or most of the class for that matter. Many parents had complaints this year. My oldest daughter had her for only one year and I did not have any issues, but this year was a constant issue. Although my son was able to keep up with the academic portion, he had trouble keeping up with what she expected on a day to day basis. Needless to say, we had a difficult year. His teacher from before was wonderful and although he was sometimes disruptive in her class when he was bored, she seemed to have a better handle on it.
This year all I heard was this, that and the other things from his new teacher especially ADHD. He does not want to go back to school this year because he will have her again this year. Like I said, my youngest one was homeschooled this year, but to me she does not have a love for learning like my other two do. She was very difficult and it took a toll on me. I had decided that I would be sending all of them to public school this fall because unfortunately I felt like I needed a break from it all.
I have been homeschooling for about 8 or 9 years now. As summer ticks away, I am starting to doubt my decision and I am considering keeping my 10 and 7 year old home. My heart is very heavy for several reasons. Although I feel like I need a break and being away from me might do my youngest one some good, I also feel like they would be better at home with me. In all my years of homeschooling, I have always gathered all my materials and done all my own preparing, grading and paperwork. Because I was so sure they were all going to school, I have not done any of that and I am feeling overwhelmed.
I have started looking into Switched on Schoolhouse for my 10 year old only because it seem to take care of alot of the paperwork portion for you, but they do not have a Switched on Schoolhouse curriculum for 2nd grade. Do you have any suggestions for a curriculum that is comparable to SOS? I know a lady who uses Time 4 Learning and she likes it alot. My problem is I dislike spending money on something that I have nothing to show for. At least with SOS, I can reuse it down the road or resell it and recoop some of my money.
Sorry for the lengthy email and sorry for any typos. I am hurrying because my husband is off today and he wants me to go outside to help him with some yard work. Thanks in advance for your time and I hope to hear from you soon.